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       Anonymous

Sometimes I feel like that too. Whenever I have a headache I look at the bottle and pour about forty pills into my hand and just look at them thinking all I have to do is take them all. In the end however I only take two and put the rest back. You need to be stronger then the urge and you need to be stronger then whatever it is that is making you want to die.

If that isn’t a good enough reason think about your family members and what it would do to them, your friends who would constantly be questioning if they could have stopped you, and think about all of the experiences you have yet to experience. You will miss out on so many things you were meant to do. What people who commit suicide don’t realize is that this sadness that makes you want to cease to exist is temporary, you have the power to be a better person, to rise above it. 

And if that still isn’t enough, think about all of the thousands of people who die every day, who have no choice. Infants die premature without even a chance to see the world. Cancer patients live their lives knowing that they might only have a couple of weeks left to experience their life. Children all over the world die from diseases and hunger even though they want to live. You have the choice to live and would be throwing it away because you don’t realize how precious that is. There are people who want to live but can’t. Feel lucky that you have the chance to live and not hate the opportunity you have been given, not everyone is as fortunate.

       Anonymous

Maybe tell him that you don’t want a relationship at the moment and you just want to get to know him better before becoming totally exclusive. The best bet is to break it smoothly to him and try not to make it sound like your breaking his heart. However, if you really have no interest in dating him anytime in the future then it is cruel to just use him for a prom date. 

Dont lead him on if you have no intentions on following through because guys have just as much feelings as girls do. In this situation the golden rule applies, treat people how you want to be treated. Hope I helped. xx.

       Anonymous

Well first of all any guy who stands you up is a douche, and if you are still interested in him then he is a lucky man. If you really like him then I would try and talk to him and see what you did wrong, maybe he just lost his phone and couldn’t respond or something happened.

However if you don’t really care about it too much, then I would just text him constantly and annoy the shit out of him as revenge ;)

xx

       Anonymous

Well, if you trusted him I don’t think you would have any doubts about telling him. Personally, I like being cruel and just dropping bombs and straight out telling people just to freak them out. But in your situation maybe you should sort of beat around the bush a little and when you feel like you have an opening mention it.

On another note STOP SELF HARMING. It is bad, and there are plenty of other ways to get away from whatever pain you are feeling. and I know once you tell him he will probably say the same thing. xx

       Anonymous

Well what you need to do is tell him, being a tease and stringing him along isn’t doing neither of you any favors. So maybe just casually let him know that you think you guys aren’t working. There really isn’t a magic cure that will make no one’s feelings hurt, you just need to find a solution like being honest and kind about it. xx.

       Anonymous

He sleeps around when you two aren’t together? Well doesnt that count as cheating? Look if he is doing this to you then you definately need to tell him what he is doing is wrong, if he is your boyfriend then he should not treat you like that. Just sit down with him and if you cry that’s ok as long as you are letting him know that what he is doing is truly upsetting you. If he cares as much for you as you do for him then he should understand. Stay strong love xx.

       Anonymous

TALK TO HIM! The mistakes that girls constantly make is expecting the guy to make the first move when you are equally as capable of making a move as well. So talk to him, be fearless because from what it sounds like there is some mild interest and definately chemistry, so just talk to him, get to know him. xx

       Anonymous

Well when I text a boy and I have something specific on my mind I start of with hey and then the next couple of texts I just right off the bat ask them or tell them or tell them. However, if you want to start off with hey can we talk, I advice hey I need to talk to you because that sounds a bit less scary to me. Hope I helped. xx